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Wink Detective
A secret winker knocks players out with a wink while a detective tries to figure out who it is.
AgesK–2nd, 3rd–5th, PreteenKids6-20Time10-15 minWhereIndoorEnergyCalm
Get ready
- Seat everyone in a circle where they can see each other's faces.
- Prepare one slip per player, with one slip marked X.
How to play
- Choose one player to be the detective and have them step out of earshot or close their eyes.
- Hand out the slips. Whoever gets the X is the secret winker. Everyone keeps their slip hidden.
- Bring the detective back to stand in the middle.
- The winker quietly winks at players. If you get winked at, wait a couple of seconds, then dramatically "fall asleep" in your seat.
- The detective gets three guesses to name the winker.
- If the detective guesses right, they win. If the winker puts everyone to sleep first, the winker wins.
Tips & variations
- For kids who can't wink yet, let the winker stick out their tongue instead.
- Play a practice round so everyone understands to wait a moment before falling asleep.

